

I've also been thinking a lot of the different stages of parenting lately. I'm noticing that it's easier in most aspects to have a newborn for me now because I know what to expect and how to get MOST of the results I'm after......but on the other hand, it's getting a little trickier.
Trickier for the reason that have now have “older” kids that have places to go and people to see. I remember after having Bronson, Camden, Emerson and Aleeya I could technically just hang out at home for as long as I wanted (anyone that knows me knows that it didn't happen like that, but in THEORY, I had the option to do that. ) Even after I had Iris, it was summer vacation, so I wasn't doing the school thing, but I WAS doing summer sports. So now when I have a baby, I will know more what's coming. Because afterall, the kids STILL have to go to school and be picked up, they STILL need to make it to basketball, piano, preschool, scouts and whatever else. (and all the kids get the great opportunity of coming as well) Some things were so simple then and I miss always having the family to myself, determining schedules, and really only leaving the house because I CHOSE to etc. Afterall, I've mentioned before I'm a minimalist right? Well, I like things simple.
Then I started thinking how this is JUST THE BEGINNING of all the events, activities and taxi-running for the next 20 years of my life. I know in 5-10 years I'll think back to THIS time and think how simple and nice it is that I have 4 sweethearts at home w/ me during the day, that I can always get a nap during the day if I wanted while they all nap, that even my oldest ones still like to snuggle me and have me rub their heads/backs/necks, that when I drop Bronson and Camden off at the bus stop I get the BIGGEST hugs and strongest ones known to man, that my kids are SO excited to see me when I pick them up, and that they all just LOVE newborn babies and help me out so much......and they actually are TRULY helpful.
I think that's why parenting is so fun, because EVERY stage has something so wonderful to offer and once it's over, it is definitely missed. However, thinking back to those times made me realize how precious this one is too. And we ALL need reminders like that every once and while.
5 comments:
She is the most adorable thing ever! Seriously, I need a girl. :) That is one rockin princess!
I LOVED her princess outfit! Fits her adorable personality! So glad you guys came!!
Love the new header picture. That's the kind of family picture we take! Gotta love those candid shots :)
Regarding the taxi driver and hauling kids to their different activities and towing the rest of the gang along, too.. how have you been able to hang on to and establish nap time when you're always running?
And, really.. that's the BEST looking princess I've ever seen. Disney would hire her in a second.
That picture of Aleeya is classic. Something that should go on her graduation announcement or something! I was really thankful when I had the twins that I didn't have to go anywhere for a whole year! And you are right...it will only get more busy!
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